COMPASSION

The word, COMPASSION could well be out of date and yet, true compassion is expressed a lot in everyday life. It happens when one who is strong is able to bow down and care for someone who is weak.

I had an experience a long time ago. I was in Dublin meeting my sisters and the three of us were sauntering down O'Connell street. This was a special occasion as my sister Mairead, only comes home on holiday every three years.  We were determined to make the most of our time together, full of chat and laughter.

That's when I noticed the young girl, sitting on the pavement outside a shop.  How old was she I wondered; more importantly why was she begging?  Of course, Mairead, who has a big heart, was the first to offer her money.  I was searching for small change, when two women came along...  ' Don't give her anything.  Look at her, she has a cigarette in her mouth, and you are only encouraging her to beg.' 

Tears began to roll down the young girl's face, ' A friend gave me the cigarette...'  She was being judged, without evidence of any kind.  She didn't need to be humiliated.  She needed compassion.  

Years ago, in our younger and more adventurous years, we went on what was called the QUEST.  The idea was to go, two by two, and travel from Dublin to Copenhagen, without funds of any kind, like the pilgrims of old. This meant begging for our fares and a place to stay!   It was mad / it was terrifying / it was an adventure we will never forget.  At times, we were spoiled; other times hungry and wishing we had stayed at home.  

For me, one of the great lessons was to realize that nobody begs for the fun of it. It is humbling and puts oneself at the kindness and mercy of others. And, a great way to learn the value of Compassion.